Friday, April 24, 2015

Kitty

This week a little girl shaped hole formed in my heart. My friend Cidnie's daughter Kitty drowned in the blink of an eye in a tragic accident. I have held this beautiful child in my arms, I have looked into her sparkling eyes, and her mama and I share how our babies are so alike (and so much more) as often as we can. I literally have no words. I barely have breath.


Please read my friend Behan's post, for she beautifully explains what's going on in a way I could never hope to mirror.

http://www.sailingtotem.com/2015/04/some-good-must-come-from-this-tragedy.html

And my friend Laureen perfectly states how I feel, how we all feel, if you are so inclined to make any negative statements in my space about this tragedy.

http://theexcellentadventure.com/ea/2015/04/23/sheltering-from-the-wind/

And Anne beautifully describes trying to make sense of it.  http://frompinetopalm.com/

And Brittany bares the grief we all feel so raw and close to the surface. http://www.windtraveler.net/2015/04/the-world-lost-bright-light.html


I am grateful my boat mama tribe is strong enough to create words and thoughts. All I can manage right now are expletives and sobs.

Cidnie, baby Naia, and baby Kitty.


Please help them get through this difficult time by donating here.  http://www.gofundme.com/sqr4a4

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I have no helpful words. I'm so sorry. Thinking of your family and all the others who have been touched by this tragedy.
I'm deeply sad for her family and your boating community, Cindy. Tragedies like this make us all hold our children a little tighter. Love, light, and insulation from the trolls to all of you!
This tragedy has really hit home here in Kemah, even for the boating families who didn't know Kitty. On Sunday, we're all going to wear pink and blow bubbles in her honor, at the Kemah Boardwalk. Yes, there are lots of would'ves/could'ves/should'ves, but the reality is that we can't control everything and we can't keep our little ones safe 100% of the time, as much as we want to. My heart really goes out to that family.
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It's so true , as I sit here and cry for their hurt is never want to experience , I hope and pray they feel the love from the community and somehow find comfort 😢😢
"Sorrow", "Sad", "Sympathy" - these words just don't cut it. Your love for this little one and her mom come through in your words. I often can't make any sense out of events in our world. I think we just need to keep breathing in & out, moving to our own rhythms, finding our joyful moments along the way. I wish you and the family peace.
Sending thoughts of peace and joyful remembrance to all who knew and loved this youngster. Thank you for defending the family against the trolls who only like to hear themselves speak-no matter the veracity of those words. My prayers go with Kitty's family as they go thru this most distressful time. Thanks for the link to the gofundme.
I am not a boat person. At all. But a year or so ago I was asked to comment on a controversy involving another family and wanted to understand what it meant to raise a family " aboard". I gained much knowledge by reading your and many other blogs which gave me a much more nuanced view of the issues. It introduced me ( virtually at least ) to many incredible families and allowed me to understand the lure of the life. One of those was the Ceol Mor blog and I liked reading about the charming Kitty who was obviously doted on and beloved. My deepest sympathies to you and to all her family and friends.
I'm so sorry. Sending prayers. There really aren't words for this. Just heavy hearts. I'm so very sorry for all.
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child is awful. It doesn't really matter how it happens. Loss is loss and the grief is almost unbearable. I hope her family is comforted by friends and strangers alike. I hope they find the peace and compassion they need to make it through this tough, tough, tough time.
How sad. I have no judgement, accidents can happen no matter where people live, to all kinds of parents. I am sure that the family will have expenses but funerals do NOT have to cost $10,000. The actual burial or cremation also does not have to be part of the celebration of that child's life. Consumer Funeral Alliances are all over the US and help keep the costs down. www.funerals.org. Such a tragedy should not be followed by financial hardship.

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